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Originally Posted by Hooligan
No, you're not rambling, you're trying to seek further insight into what is at the bottom of everything going on. So it's good to ask questions.
With help, her syptoms, if they were at all psychosis (because remember alot of what she said may frankly have been her opinion) - well yes she can certainly achieve stability in terms of her mental health.
I don't know her which is why I'd be hesitant to even "label" some of what she said as psychosis in the first place ... because it is your opinion that she lied. I have no means of testing what is fact. I can only comment on what you state.
Hope this helps.
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of course it helps.. it all helps. here's an example of the kind of stuff I'm talking about.
I reached out this week, she answered angrily. When I asked her if she was pissed at the world or just me, she answered "just you"
she went on to accuse me of "controlling her" and "using her for sex"
I assure neither of these accounts are remotely true.. even slightly. I called her on it and she said " you know some of its true because you (I) were paranoid about me leaving you for another man." she's a waitress, men hit on her constantly but she made it clear there were no issues and it was dismissed.. Even if I were "paranoid" that does not equate to control..
That said, her very next email 5 minutes later was to ask me to come have sex with her, immediately after the accusation of using her for sex.. of course I avoided the subject completely and tried to stay on task. As peacefully and tactfully as I could, I suggested that she is manic and very sick, I also told her she is on the verge of losing a lot more by continuing on this path.
It is summer, she wants to have fun etc. She is already out of money since leaving me. She rented a place she likely can't afford, her car is broken, she's drinking a lot according to her, I'm sure there's drugs in there too. promiscuity is a no-brainer, on and on. It's not going to end well at all. I just hate to see her lose everything that I helped her gain, jobs, car, etc