My T is very much in between. Shes an average looking mom type. I don't find her physically attractive, but I love who she is as a person so I've grown to appreciate her smile, her eyes, her gestures, etc. I like the fact that i relate to her in a maternal way, so it works for me. It would NOT be healthy for me to work with a T that I had a crush on, so I'm actually grateful that my T is not more attractive!

I also find it interesting that so many people on the forum seem to prefer the natural look. My T is natural, and she prefers that in othwrs as well. I, on the other hand, wear make-up, do my hair, paint my nails, etc-- and that is what i am attracted to in others as well (I'm a lesbian). To each their own