Well it often takes more than one try to find a therapist that is suitable. You found yourself one T, you could find yourself another. Plus, if the T seems like a good person but has some problems, you could try to solve the problems by politely telling her specifically what you want and don't want her to do.

Also, you can continue to speak here, and perhaps speak here more often. People here are not Ts, but in my experience they do typically try to help in the way that you said: Give me advice, ask me questions, tell me her opinion, tell me what I should do next.

You could give that a try by posting something here that you might like to ask or tell a T (if you had one). I hope that you do.

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