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Everyone has a right to their sexual preferences. In saying that, if this is something he wants... he should have been upfront with you from the beginning.
Again, I have fallen in this trap a time or two. I personally am not interested in 3 or 4some or more lol. I have dated a few men who were not honest up front about wanting this.. I'm sure they were going to try and talk me into it.
Not being sexual.. I do have male friends. It would be very difficult to let go if a new man came into my life and had a problem with that.
Jealousy is a part of life. As you get to know each other and trust each other, hopefully, with time, it will not come up unwarranted.
Something else to accept - most men are thinking about sex very often.. that's the way they are wired. The more you tell someone they cannot have something, the more they want it.
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