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Originally Posted by Tearinyourhand
do the loving feelings that can come up make our Ts more attractive? I only ask bc when i scroll through online listings for therapists most, particularly the women, are bland boring mousy haired unstylish 30ish social worker types with mom cuts and frumpy clothes. the men are mostly balding, paunchy and really OLD.
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I think the answer is yes! Most people become more attractive when you get to know them and like or love them, whether T or someone else. When I first started seeing my T I thought her face was all mouth, and she was so thin I didn't know how I could even look at her. Gradually, as therapy progressed, I thought she became prettier, and more attractive. Now I think she's beautiful! She used to wear unattractive glasses but got contacts, so there were some changes. For the most part, though, the quote "beauty is the eyes of the beholder" is true. IMO.