He has a really difficult time making friends ( like he doesn't really have any) so I get that he just wants someone to talk to. But why cant he talk to a guy online? Of course it has to be some prettier younger woman.

We've argued about this a lot and in the heat of the moment he snapped and said what so I'm not allowed to have any basic human connection with anyone other than you? Which is so unfair. I want him desperately to have friends and have fun and enjoy people outside of me. But yeah it would be a whole lot easier if it was someone who lived in our city... and not some woman who he kept secret for a month or so behind my back because he was worried how I would react. Sigh... relationships are so damn rough sometimes..

Aside from all this he is a very supportive loving man. I dont mean to make him out to be a monster or a jerk or anything. We've been through a lot together and he is always there picking me up when I fall and making me laugh when I cry. I know he loves me but yeah I cant help but feel like this is starting to tear me apart inside. I just feel like it's mostly my insecurity. Though I do feel as though he has made some poor judgement.