I've considered meeting her yes.. but I dont know if I can stomach it. My boyfriend feels the same way in that I am overreacting.He swears up and down that it isnt romantic in any way shape or form which I am truly doing my best to trust him. I think it's hard for me because he kept it from me and talked and skyped behind my back for a while. I was brought up in an abusive household and its extremely difficult to let someone in fully and trust them. My boyfriend is basically the only person who I have let in and I feel he betrayed me a bit by not being upfront in the first place.

I'm okay with online friendships in general but I dunno.... its been an emotionally charged situation from the beginning and I feel like he doesnt really see it from my point of view. And yeah I dont like that she is comfortable sharing her sex life with my boyfriend but he apparently shut that down pretty quick. It still stings though. I'm working on being okay with it but rumination has a hold of me and wont ease up which is really affecting my mood.