Artemis, my goal in therapy is to thoroughly work on my Transference issues so that T seems "normal" to me, like yours has become. Though my inner child still holds on, my adult self knows that life will be better when we have a more mature relationship with T and all other important people to come into life. Your experience is an inspiration, and I hope continues to work out well for you.
Meanwhile, my T looks so much like Joan Collins that all I have to do is watch old Dynasty shows to feel like I'm with her. That's in spite of the evil role Collins plays...I even think that's cute...and maybe means I'm even more messed up than ever.