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Old Jun 14, 2015, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by ameliaxxx View Post
I know! A lot of T's are attractive... Then you got the ones that just look like a big pile of dog crap... I don't get it. It's like, nothing in between.

But I don't think therapy would work for me if I didn't have intense transference to my T. I don't open up or even socialize/communicate with anyone unless I find them attractive and REALLY like them... And they have to be female. I don't open up to males. (I'm female). I have like this one type, with little flexibility, that I am attracted to.

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Yeah I get what you saying, I definitely think it's important to really like your T in order to really open up. For me if I love them though, that can be a distraction. But at the same time that kind of closeness and intimacy a lot of times brings up love and so I think maybe if a person can even work through those feelings, it can be that additional benefits in terms of future relationships. Because this would be (should be) a safe place to express love without fear of abuse or careless rejection or anything else.
Thanks for this!
ameliaxxx