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Old Jun 14, 2015, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
I personally don't think my level of attachment affected my perception of how my Ts look.

I asked 4 family members about my ex-T. They all agreed she was beautiful and could be a model. And I asked my fiance and my mom about new T and they agree she looks like a petite Melissa Joan Hart and is cute.

I don't percieve all my past Ts as gorgeous or hot. They're all beautiful in their own way, but not necessarily to society. One ex-T who I had no attachment to looked like Martha Stewart. A good ex-T I saw for 4 years (and had matetnal transference with) was tiny, skin and bones, and had to keep her hair short otherwise it would be a huge fro (spelling?). My Pdoc who I'm slightly attached ti is beautiful but in an average way.

So maybe for some, the attachment/transference changes the perception, but it doesn't for me.

Addition: my last ex-T (Olivia Wilde) is an ex-T because she abandoned me. It's a long story... It's been 13.5 weeks, so I'm still dealing with the grief.

I'm sorry she abandoned you

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