Thanks for the feedback on my last post.

Puts it into perspective what you were saying about the waitressing job and men flirting with her ... I think that her case goes beyond the normal definition of "flirting" ... hers was taken to an extreme.

Glad that you had a "talkative" and "open" relationship. Yes, I'm not disputing that men hit on her, likely - an no I'm not stereotyping her job as a waitress. When I was studying at University I did some waitressing here and there and men did hit on me, and not because I was intentionally flirting with them or even flirting with them in the first place. But a waitress walking around all grumpy and sulking (okay just pushing this to the other extreme) won't last all that long because it is a high demand occupation for a lot of students and a person can be replaced in that kind of environment in a blink of an eye.

Okay her personal experience did push past the extreme though and hers was somewhat of a very much so "in your face" kind of factor that neither of you two I guess could have ignored if it reached the extreme that they wanted to "get with her". Yes that would piss me off if I were in her shoes.