hmm I dont feel threatened so much as that she will steal him away from me because you are right I highly doubt that they will ever meet up. I think for me it is more about his inital keeping things behind my back, the idea that he has gone to someone else for emotional support and fails to talk to me about it, and yes, the inappropriate comment that she had made and the possibility for more.

But your right I do believe online friendships are valid and real. Probably easier for him as well which I get. we all need connections with people in life and he deserves just as much as the next. This is why I feel so crazy having these thoughts and emotions. I want to be okay with it...I just dont know how.

I would like to state again that I love him very much and I know he loves me. It's just a bump in the road of our very long relationship that I cant seem to get over due to my mental health issues and he doesnt seem to be as understanding as I would appreciate.

Thanks for your thoughts