Thanks, Wolf..
I have looked this up thru various links since posting my question, and see that it is nebulous in description of traits...and see SOME things which describe me, but not severe...I am thinking anyone could formulate their own diagnosis as having this, but since I maintain a fairly healthy life, good job, stable friends, family, etc, much of it does not apply to me. At the same time, I do recognize that I am "hypervigilant" in my attempt at romantic relationships, suffering severe hurt of rejection and overly long periods of extreme recovery....also a great deal of self-blaming for failures, insecurity and inferiority. Is this BPD?
Patty