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Old Jun 15, 2015, 05:16 PM
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My T is currently on leave until mid-end July, and I've been seeing a different T (used to be my group T) while he's gone. Thing is, this T was good as a group T because I only talked for 5 minutes top, but I really don't like how she does her sessions. She has said I could tell her what my main T does, and she'll try to follow it as best she can, but she's just not him and I don't have the same relationship with her. I have 3 sessions with her until my T is back, so I'm just going with the flow right now.

Anyway, the thing is I see her this Thursday, and something has happened this weekend that has really triggered me. I would be comfortable telling my actual T the situation, because we've already talked about sex before which is what this is about. I'm NOT comfortable talking to this T about it, but it's something I really need to talk about.

I'm not sure what to do about this, and I don't know how this T would react and help me process it. Do I wait until next month until my actual T comes back, and work through it myself? Or tell this T?

Another thing is my T would call my doctors and talk to them directly if I had an appointment coming up that I was very nervous about. I have one Thursday afternoon for getting some moles checked, and this is a situation I'd ask if he could help me with.
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