
I would hope you can step back and try to see why they say you aren't ready to change through therapy. Hypnotherapy is often used for a particular sticking point or area of difficulty...
Did you ask either of them why they felt the way they do about you playing games? IDK if either would see you again to discuss this... it could be they have a large caseload and only see those who fit a certain criteria... which you do not fit.
Do you have specifics on what your issues are, what you want to change, what you have done so far on your own to change? I'm not judging you, just trying to ask enough questions to where you might find an "ah ha!" for yourself.