I don't think so because I have always seen it as a choice.
I could choose to be different (hugs for everyone) - I don't want to.
I am not a huge believer in unconscious - but if one is - super with me.

I am always fascinated when people see what the therapist says as having relevance to them.
BB - do you want to change the core belief? It may seem like there is only one answer - but I am not always sure that is true.