Thinking about it some more, I think I can see where the T is coming from. Actually, if I remember right, wasn't your XT NOT going to give you these things as originally promised? And new T helped you to get them by trying to work with your XT? If so, I suppose new T could feel like she has some interest in these items because without her, you might not have gotten them. If it's possible (if I remember correctly) that it is partly because of new T that you got these items, I can see why she wants to be a part of opening them.