I've got a big decision to make, in a way I've already made it but am feeling scared of the consequences.

I want to know what my t thinks. My t will often help me out in making small decisions, and sometimes tells me what she thinks (though sometimes she appears to be quite careful of what's said). I really want to know her opinion on, and perspective of, the final decision that I'm about to make.

I know a lot of ts won't give advice or even share their thoughts with clients. So I'm nervous asking her directly. I'm not sure that she will answer, but I don't feel I can make this decision alone. We've talked about it, but that was mostly her getting me to consider the possible outcomes and effect of my decision by asking me questions.

Im not sure whether I'll even like her answer, and it may make things worse not better for me.

Have you ever asked your t for their opinion on a huge decision you have to make? Did it help or hinder you?