I've read your earlier posts, and it seems that you are too smart for therapy in a lot of ways; that you have the ability to debate any theoretical approach with reason, but also to protect yourself from letting your guard down.

The wound is emotional, though, so your intellect can work against you. I guess I'm just saying that I understand your dilemma. The thing I would do, though, is directly address this with the referral therapist in person and then gauge your feelings and thoughts about it.