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Originally Posted by musinglizzy
Thinking about it some more, I think I can see where the T is coming from. Actually, if I remember right, wasn't your XT NOT going to give you these things as originally promised? And new T helped you to get them by trying to work with your XT? If so, I suppose new T could feel like she has some interest in these items because without her, you might not have gotten them. If it's possible (if I remember correctly) that it is partly because of new T that you got these items, I can see why she wants to be a part of opening them.
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You are correct. New T was able to convince ex-T to give me these things. Not only that, ex-T requested that new T be present when I open it. Both are worried about my reaction. Remember, new T barely knows me. She knows that I have struggled immensely with this loss and that I have required stitches for my SI. To them it is a safety concern. And I agree it's a safety concern about the letter, not the object.