Thanks everybody. Very wise responses! It's hard to see rational reasoning when you are in the middle of it. I think you guys are right about him processing everything. He has in the past, but that was before the Bipolar diagnosis. I think that he's struggling with his own personal feelings and also seeing that some of this is not my fault (it is, but you know what I mean). There was no malicious intent. I didn't purposely do these things. That is a new concept for him and I think he feels sorry for me as well.

He is not in counseling, however I think he should be. The kicker to all of this is that he was getting his Masters in Counseling a few years back but instead got it in his field of work. Crazy! I think that has helped him understand as well. Things aren't just black and white. I need to give him a break. He doesn't know I was upset. I'm not bringing it up. That's why I came here.

Thanks so much for listening and the advice!