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Old Jun 16, 2015, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Bill3 View Post
I don't favor trying to block her out of your mind.

I would favor reflecting on what happened yesterday, and on what she means to you, why you find her so important, how these thoughts can be useful to you in your life now.

For example: you spoke of how you got good grades to please her. I wonder if you could still have her as a role model and inspiration, if she could help you in that way even now?

What if you wrote these things down, like say in a journal?
maybe i can do that yeah , but in a journal online in microsoft word or something, because if i write it on papers i´m afraid someone finds it..

i still have her as a role model. when i don´t feel like studying, i think of the words she said to me years ago, that i´m able to do all this, that i´m a smart special kid and that i must never forget that. and that gives me somewhat motivation..

when i left school i´ve send her also a mail with how much she meant to me and how she helped me and that i was grateful for her and i got the cutest reaction back. i would´ve post the mail here but it is written in dutch so yeah..

thanks alot Bill!
Thanks for this!
angelicgoldfish05, Bill3