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unaluna · Jun 16, 2015, 01:45 PM

Sounds like a thought your t needed to keep to herself. Sounds like you need to find a t who understands what it really means for it to never be enough. Not somebody who is sitting on top of a mountain of candy and asking you why youre still hungry.

Possible trigger:

My ts mother passed when he was six years old, so he understands hunger. I feel terrible complaining about my mother when i think he wishes he had his, but he has good memories of her, while i have not a single one.

Its something my t and i share; i dont get the feeling your t is IN THERE with you, whether thats your "fault" or hers, you havent moved towards each other. She has to leave a space open for you.