Inny, I've been with my T for almost 2 yrs., and I'm still going slow, still getting used to it. I view the therapeutic relationship like any relationship in life-- you have to find the person you click with-- some you will connect with, some you won't... just like any relationship. The one you will click with is still out there... I just really hope this experience doesn't scare you out of finding that connection. I'm sorry it was a bad experience.