It took me awhile to get comfortable making eye contact with T but now I actually like looking at her because she makes me feel like she really cares. With other people, I have no problem looking them in the eyes, especially when they are talking. It is the eye contact during silences with T that I still struggle with. I would love to hold eye contact with her for a bit but I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable or have her look away first. If she were to look away first I would feel rejected...