Loophole, I go through the same things now and then. There's one person in my office that thinks he's good at busting everyone's stones. Today, he tried his magic on me just to drive me away but I stuck around to let him know it was ME that was in charge. He played at TOP volume this recording of a Japanese guy screaming in Japanese. I innocently asked "what on earth are you listening to?" Then he changed gears and played some vulgar gangsta rap and I sarcastically said "oh that's quite an improvement".

I get paranoid too - thinking it is directed at me (perhaps it is). But I try not to let it bother me anymore and just retreat into my own world. He figured he wasn't getting to me so he just quit.