I don't really know where this belongs, but The Couch is my family so I'll start here.

I've put a name to my pain. If it were just me and W, I would emigrate to Queensland for the good of my mental health. No more winters, ever! But there is also D to consider. It is probable (I don't know for sure yet) that she wants to go to university in Auckland and even more probable that W won't leave her. To go to Queensland without W would be even worse.

So I feel trapped in this cold grey city and I can see no escape.