I dunno. Personally I don't try because I don't see why in the world someone would befriend someone as negative and boring like me. I know I can't offer anyone anything, and in our life almost no one gives/helps without waiting for something in return "I am not complaining, it makes sense and I completely understand that". I mean, if I can't make you enjoy the time you spend talking with me, I don't see why you would continue ! and a friendship that is based on pity is not friendship, and I don't think I'd accept something like that lol.
Also, it's easy for me to talk in a very negative way about myself , and even though I already know I am a loser , of course I wouldn't want to hear it from someone else , maybe this is the real reason why I never risk and try to talk to strangers, let alone trying to befriend them.
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