I dont think it has anything to do with you its just that we all have an ED to come with or some other problem & some time we just dont know what to say most of the time I just let the people that post that I am thinking of them if I feel that I have noting to say that can help them or if I am having a bad time myself also my Husband finds it very hard to cope with my ED so I dont get on here very often as it upsets him that I come on here please pm me if you want to I will reply to anyone who pm's me but I cant say it will be straight away