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Originally Posted by winenot3
Well what if I was the one who screwed everything up? I feel like he started out being very good for me. I don't know. I feel like maybe we could move past my feelings eventually and I can pretend he never said what he did about finding me attractive/wanting to sleep with me. I know it's inappropriate, but he never acted on it, and would never intend to.
If he's willing to forget and move forward, then so am I.
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You didn't screw anything up. This T was actually emotionally abusive to you. You were a victim in his disturbing game. He's a perverted old man and no way is he going to forget.
I can understand that you are in a desperate place and need a change. Have you discussed with your current T the lack of connection you feel? Knowing what we all know here, I would highly advise you not to return to this former T. Ever. I would be surprised if he would even agree to take you back on as a client given he was so inappropriate and unethical.