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Originally Posted by Mastodon
Indeed. In my marriage, it's H.  (I assume you mean housework, shopping, etc. We both have full-time jobs.) Although to be fair to myself I would perhaps do more if I ever did anything right in H's eyes. It feels pointless to even try. Plus I'm lazy, which is the real reason. |
I could never do anything right as far as the stbx was concerned either. Thing is, I'm actually better than he is at a lot of stuff, as I'm discovering now that I kicked his miserable whiny butt to the curb.
I wouldn't feel a bit bad about not doing those things Mast (and don't be calling yourself lazy girl! I'm sure you're not!). If your H feels he can do a better job, let him at it. Makes your life easier either way 
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