I dont think he wants sex with you but he is man and if there were no boundaries he wouldnt say no to attractive women not specially you. Men have different thinking about sex.
Most of men would like to f.. me, my T said it too. I dont think it means anything, they always want sex with attractive women or even not much attractive.
Men dont like when women acts miserable except if they like to use their power over them and it seems that your T likes it, he laughs about you by his text messages and feels so powerful over you. I would hate him and show that I am strong not that miserable girl.

Im sorry if I am harsh, I just wanted to tell what I think. If you hope he will be something more than your T, you waste your time. I suggest you to start to live?
How old are you? Do you have partner? Do you really want that old granfather? Do you really think he is still able to have sex with anyone?

Maybe you want just someone who listens and cares, then talk...not play testing games. You cant manipulate with T, they see it.

I wish you well.