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Old Jun 18, 2015, 01:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Mastodon View Post
Indeed. In my marriage, it's H. (I assume you mean housework, shopping, etc. We both have full-time jobs.) Although to be fair to myself I would perhaps do more if I ever did anything right in H's eyes. It feels pointless to even try. Plus I'm lazy, which is the real reason.
I may not have that situation at home, but I do work with a perfectionist. When she isn't fully happy with my work, instead of letting me tweak minor issues, she does it herself.

I think perfectionism on his part gives you a good reason to let him do his thing!