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Honestly, I think my H is threatened by my T. He never says anything, and he knows I still go twice a week, but I think he's feeling threatened at just the thought that I'm going to therapy. Like if he does something, I actually have someone to go tattle to about it or something. We get along just fine...as roommates. We sleep on separate floors. I never intend to sleep with him again (it's been over two years). Right now I'm just coasting. I don't see being married to him forever. But that's how my H seems to feel about therapy.... I really think he feels a bit intimidated by it.