I'm sorry that your husband seems jealous of your therapist and is unsupportive of the growth you've made in therapy.

My SO gets quite irritated with how much I talk about my T (I've all sorts of transference) because I sound like a child pining for a nurturing figurem

However, they has been very supportive of my growth in therapy. They even encouraged me to stick in therapy when I wanted to run away because I was getting attached to my therapist.