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Old Jun 18, 2015, 01:50 AM
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If you can't get work right away, volunteering is a great way to meet people. It projects that you are caring and thoughtful of others. Doing things in groups is less threatening, at least to women like me. Online dating seems like asking for a hookup, but Meetup groups are a good low-pressure way to meet people too.

Looks matter less than you think, like many of us, you do the best with what you've got.