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Old Jun 18, 2015, 02:45 AM
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Originally Posted by QuietMind View Post

My pattern seems to be -- I meet strangers, we seem tolike each other, but things fizzle out/they start ignoring me/no return invites after 1-2 meets.

It's puzzling!
I suspect this happens to everyone, but when those of us with bad anxiety go through it, it can feel like crushing rejection. Personally I'm finding that repetition does help--just keep going to events or classes that you like. Most people are going to be "hi/bye" relationships. Eventually something has to stick!