Pinksoil,
You will know what you are ready to discuss when you sit down, won't you? And, if he is like my T, he will not bring the poetry up first, so why not just wait him out? (LOL)
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I said to him, "This is going so deep, isn't ever enough?" And he said, "It's never enough."
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This would make me very nervous too. You are a brave soul, PInk.