I meant whether it was unusual in general, rather than unusual for me.
Long story short, I stopped seeing him in December because we kept going round in circles with boundary changes, me feeling rejected and ruptures.
When i started seeing him, we just clicked, we are quite similar people and we got on so well. It really was like the sort of compatability that only comes around once or twice in your life. Unfortunately he was my therapist. There was just no getting around the fact I wanted a friendship with him. Therapy was painful, so I had to find a different T.