The grief process takes different amount of time for each person. I've been 14 weeks w/o my ex-T. I still miss her, I'm still angry with her, and I still love her. If something triggers me about ex-T, I still cry. But it has lessened compared to termination day.

Have your feelings at least lessened? It's okay if they're still intense for you, but if they haven't lessened since 7 months ago, then I would have to agree you might be living in a fantasy / not accepting reality