No idea how to help you, I won't even lie.


All I can say is it seems to me that you haven't reached that point in life, where you're appreciative of the good in your life...


Idk if its a question of maturity, or if you just haven't suffered enough losses, but you seem to be in the "won't know what you have until its gone" camp.


When I was younger, my mom always said, never make a guy feel too safe. Once they catch on that you're theirs no matter what, that's when they become complacent and lose their appreciation for you.


It happened to me regardless of her words, and sadly I was devoted to the wrong man. My ex was so convinced I would never leave he actually beat the crap out of me, thinking I'd still stick by him.

Pfft.


Anyway, I see how your gf's devotion has brought about this response in you as well. You have no reason to question her devotion, no fear of the relationship sinking due to her wanting something or someone else, you've gotten way too comfy because you know she wont leave you.


Well, there's a down side to this comfy, women know when they're just part of the furniture and we don't like it. Consequences will ensue, sooner or later.


You're not a child anymore, time to get your priorities in order. Either decide to appreciate your gf and what you have, or risk killing it.