Thanks everyone! All very helpful! I think part of the problem with dating nowadays is that with online dating it can be so superficial and people have hundreds literally at their fingertips so it allows them to be a bit more choosy. I just don't appreciate being called shallow and told to settle. I know it's like trying to find the needle in the haystack and it'll happen when it happens. And I just need to live my life for me. To want someone but not need someone. To be grateful for what I have because I am incredibly blessed and a that other sage advice. With these two cuties, how could I not be?! Thanks for letting me vent