My ex n I broke up about a year ago. She was very imature about it n just left with no explanation. I tried to get ahold of her several times to try and talk about the situation but she just ignored my calls and then at one point told me to leave her the **** alone so I didI didn't talk to her for several months and then she started calling me againand for a while called me almost every single day we talked and we're getting along fine and on several occasions she told me that she had been trying to get ahold of me to go out and eat or go do something but every time we would plan it she just wouldn't show up and ignore my calls when I tried to find out what's going on after a while it pissed me off but every time I would ask her what the deal was she would not give me a straight answer. we would talk for a month and be getting along fine and then out of the blue she would tell me to leave her alone but I never called her during this time it was always her initiation to communication with methis has happened probably four times over the past year and its always the same exact thing I finally asked her this time to just be honest and quitdoing these crazy things without an explanation she told me that she didn't want to hang out with me because she didn't want me to get the wrong ideabut once again she was telling me that she was trying to get ahold of me to go do something. I am never the one who initiated contact with her and never asked her to go do anything until she started asking me. its really upsetting because I do still love this girl and when we're talking and getting along it feels good but it always ends up with her telling me to leave her alone and being mean to me what is going on here this is not normal is it and it is normal for me to be completely confused and want to have some answers from her isn't itit's really upsetting because I do still love this girl and when we're talking and getting along it feels good but it wasn't up with her telling me to leave her alone and being mean to me what is going on here this is not normal is it and it is normal for me to be completely confused and wanna have some answers from her is in it