Oh also - I was accused of pushing people away - by someone who regularly gets overwhelmed by friendships and backs away from them, preferring the company of strangers. Now, on the one hand, I have to take that observation with a grain of salt. But on the other, again, it's another thing to blame myself for. It's true that I will cut people out of my life if they abuse me, but unfortunately I'll give them like 10 tries before I go for good. But if I do push people away, then, once again, I should stay away from people, because if they get attached I'll just drop them and hurt them. In theory.