Sounds like you've been through a lot of tough things over the past few years. Going to Florida with your girls this summer sounds like an exciting, fun idea. The three of you will get to make some wonderful memories together.

Your daughters know you are interested and that they can come to you. It's a good sign that they feel they can confide in you. Don't make your time with your oldest daughter too much about discussing your ex wife. I would listen, but she really has to work out her relationship with her mother in her own way. You can't really keep yourself in the middle of that. She should have other things to talk about. Having meals together and going places with your girls builds their relationship with you. That's what your time together should mostly be about. It sounds like you do enjoy them.