I am feeling good as a couple of days ago my ex said that his parents have him to live there and look after them. He asked me how I felt I rather callously said I wouldn't miss him much but the girls might. He hasn't answered my calls or texts, good thing its nothing important.
And its true, I can look after myself now. I am hardly leaning on him only when its something concerning the girls.

I am leaning harder on my T but I guess thats allowed.