Well, I called my dad tonight, since I am off tomorrow night (I work during the day). I work al day Saturday and Sunday as well. I offered to take him out for an early father's day dinner. What does he do? Invites his wife (my step-mom). She is always more judgemental of me than he is. Now I will have her there saying crap too. I only thought to take my dad out so he wouldn't get p.o.-ed that I didn't do something for father's day for him. Now I will have him and her telling me I am fat or other harsh things.

I am for sure not paying for her meal. She can pay for her own. I will pay for mine and my dad's, but there's no way in hell I am paying for a 3rd meal.