Yeah apparently "etiquette" rules. Which means, i find a rule somewhere that backs me up (married couples are a social unit and must be invited as one) and goes against you. I dont see my nephew because their etiquette rules that we only get together as a "family" - ie auntie hankster plus granny. No cutting the 60 plus year old umbilical cord. Oy.

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