Oh I totally agree with fayerody!!!!! </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
it is not a "guy" thing. that's an excuse.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> some people will do what they can get away with--- one teaches others how to treat them. Demand respect and a low life(not meaning your husband-"twirls"-- is that at all-- just speaking in general terms) in one's life will either give respect or leave to abuse someone else.

How about you ask about being with another guy.... see how it feels on the other side for him..... (sorry if this seems too bold-- but I'm sick of some men thinking "it's a guy thing" to abuse, betray and/or neglect their partner )

I'm so sorry the one you love has even suggested such a heartless thing to you. Can I ask-- does he know of your past abuse?

mandy