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Originally Posted by ak482
I wish I could stop screwing up every damn thing in my life. I screwed up ANOTHER date because I can't pick up on cues. Why am I so messed up that it has to be beaten over me with a sledgehammer to get it? And I f----d up on a job interview because I was too worried about my body language.
All I hear is be yourself. Well being myself is being a brain dead 33 year old loveless virgin. Kill me now if this is how it must be. I can't have one good thing happen over sustained time.
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Hi ak. I think it's a rare person who can be depressed and successfully socialize, get new jobs and that sort of thing. People are really good at sensing that something is very wrong with you even if they don't know what it is exactly. If you have the means to survive, I think that the best thing to do by far is to get yourself un-depressed as quickly as possible. It helps a lot to understand how it works:
http://egg.bu.edu/~youssef/SNAP_CLUB...0164151576.pdf
and here's what I think is the best overall plan:
http://forums.psychcentral.com/4262681-post105.html
- vital